Thursday, May 13, 2010

Are there any classes for out of control teens?

I am very worried about my daughter shes only in 6th grade but she looks like shes 16 nobody thinks shes her age, she ';hangs out'; with people who have boy friends and girl friends, they kiss, ive seen her kiss. She doesnt care, ive tried talking to her, she wont open up, i caught her smoking, and drinking, and im very very very concerned.


Many of the people that go to her school are having sex and smoking pot.... And i think she might be one of them....I have tried sooo hard to keep her life as wholesome as possible and i dont know what went wrong......Is there any classes that she can take?Are there any classes for out of control teens?
If your work schedule can be adjusted, consider home schooling her or picking her up right after school each day and doing something with her? It doesn't have to be elaborate or expensive, make it fun and stress-free for both of you. Check your community's free activities on the internet or the paper. Is there a park where you can walk in together, for example? Local concerts, acoustic guitar players at bookstores/coffee shops. museums, aquariums are not always free but worth looking into into. Even going to yard or garage sales on saturday (excellent opportunities to socialize casually) and having her help pick out the groceries..having her help plan meals and help you prepare them. You're doing it together, she feels like a valued member of the household and your letting her know her opinion is important to you (real grown-ups don't hang out kiss and smoke, they make decisions and work to get the best out of life) ....





She will probably rebel at first but you will get your daughter back and through this experience, she will find something she likes like perhaps an interest in learning to play a musical instrument. If you don't belong to a church, go to the nearest Universalist Unitarian church. They are open to all religions and have enjoyable ';sunday school'; classes and activities and opportunities for teens and grownup to do things for the community. She will met new friends.





You have the right to tell her she is not allowed to hang out with certain people. Doing this combined with spending time with her and helping her discover other fascinating things that life has to offer I believe is the key.





The way our society and economy is structured, it's as if our culture has declared war on parents. Most parents have to spend most of their waking time working. Most mothers are doing it alone. So we are at the mercy of ';mediocre at best'; school systems and shaky peer groups or daycares and after cares, etc. People in our culture are not raising their children anymore. These other entities are. Entities that dont love them. Entities that often times abuse them. People dont know where their children are and what they are doing,. People don't even know their children anymore.





Don't let you and your young daughter be the next causality of the war on parents. She is your daughter. You are her mother. Get her back!





If you would like to email me and let me know your zip code or city I would be happy to research some great things for you two do do in your area. if you want to let me know a little bit more about your self (your work schedule, the amount of support you have from friends and family, etc, maybe I can make some helpful suggestions for you and we can come up with some more specific ideas.





There's a book about the war on parents written by Cornell West. If you google him, you will find the book. Read the synopsis. it is very affordable used on Amazon.Are there any classes for out of control teens?
Classes? What kind of classes are you talking about?





Do you actually think that her pleasure-seeking behavior is really due to a lack of information? Compromise - give her permission to smoke all the wants, but no drinking except a little wine with dinner at home with you. Tell her that if she stays away from sex with boys until she is 15, you will let her start dating then.
Take her to the police station and, have an officer talk to her about drugs n' drinking. Then have see a jail cell.





If that doesn't scare her straight, send her to reform school.
take her to the maury show or boot camp?


lol no i am just kidding.


how about trying to google it?


Or look in your local phone book.


Good luck
i know theres classes around where i live so im sure there are where you are to...try asking her dr
Your within your rights to beat her a**.





It'll knock some sense into her.

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